National Elder Abuse Awareness Day
Today marks National Elder Abuse Awareness Day - and it’s a somber topic. We never want to imagine that our elders could be experiencing abuse whether in their home or a community. The sad reality is that it can happen and we cannot ignore the signs of elder abuse. Do you know the signs?
Unexplained bruises, burns, cuts, or scars
Lack of basic hygiene, adequate food and water, or clean and appropriate clothing
Lack of medical aids (glasses, walker, teeth, hearing aid, medications)
Sunken eyes or unexplained weight loss
Untreated bedsores
Dismissive attitude or statements about injuries
Unreasonably fearful or suspicious
Lack of interest in social contacts
If you see these warning signs, it’s time to take the next step. Seek help!
Where would you go for help if you suspect elder abuse?
If you suspect someone you know is being abused or neglected, don't let your fear of meddling in someone else's business stop you from reporting your suspicions. Your first step should be to try and talk with the older adult when the two of you are alone. You could tell them that you think something might be wrong and that you're worried and offer to take them to get help.
Every state has a service designated to receive and investigate allegations of elder abuse and neglect, also known as Adult Protective Services. In addition, the Eldercare Locator is a nationwide service sponsored by the U.S. Administration on Aging that connects older Americans and their caregivers with information on services for older adults. If you know the zip code of an older person being abused, the website can refer you to the appropriate agency in the area to report the suspected abuse.
It is very important not take matters into your own hands - never put the older adult in a more vulnerable position by confronting the abuser yourself unless you have their permission and are able to help the person experiencing abuse immediately by moving them to a safe place.
As a Senior Living Advisor, we take this issue seriously. Our mission is to make sure our loved ones are placed into safe, loving, healthy communities or that the very best, caring caretakers are entering their home. If you are needing a change to make sure your loved one is safe, please call 402.305.8195.